Only Chance

Sometimes I wonder why a girl would be so stubborn not to give a guy the chance to be with her? Not say the guy is a crook or a hooligan. He's such a gentleman who is willing to do anything for her. This actually happens to my guy friend. I really pity him. He did everything he could to show his love. But still the girl said that she's not ready. She's scared of all the problems that would arise in a relationship. Which relationship doesn't have any problems? It's more of how both parties handle such situations. I can understand that she's traumatised by her sister's failed relationship. Her sister's 4 year relationship ended just like that. I guess her sister must have been hurt badly. So that is why she doesn't want to be in her sister's state. But still she can't use that as an excuse. She has to lead her own life. Why does she think that her relationship would end up like her sister's relationship? I think eventually she would end up regretting once my guy friend gives up and moves on. Wouldn't that be too late if he already find someone new? Sometimes it's wise to think carefully before you make a final decision. Well I did give someone a chance and I'm very contented with him right now =)